Open your relationship, and watch it END your relationship.
If you already did, reel that shit in, and reestablish order.
I used to think this was mostly a man thing, meaning man-boys desperately wanna get it ON to infinity and BEYOND with alllll the ladies.
Dudes are dirty dawgs – novelty-seeking, porn-watching perverts who can’t get enough suckin-n-fuckin.
Show me a teenage guy who isn’t beatin his meat multiple times daily to/with anything/everything, and I’ll show you an anomaly.
I may be exaggerating a bit (maybe), but the point is:
Boyz be THIRSTY.
Not me personally, but a guy I know…
While that may be true-ish for guys in their 20s who are not in a serious relationship, it’s often different for married men over 30…
I’ve worked with several guys in some version of this situation:
Married for 5-10+ years. Sex is infrequent & lackluster.
Husband & Wife have become Mom & Dad.
Romantic partners have become life partners.
Lovers have become roomies.
Man is an agreeable, peace-keeping & productive ‘nice guy’.
Woman is turned off by lack of leadership, which presents as ‘low libido’.
Lady is romantically starving & has tried communicating, but homie ain’t gettin it.
Guy is frustrated & resentful from being constantly rejected.
He feels like he’s never enough, despite working hard to be a genuinely good guy.
This dynamic goes on for a while before she starts seeking turn-on elsewhere…
A book or podcast plants a seed of possiblity…
a tantra influencer lures with seductive language painting a picture of poly-paradise…
she participates in a sacred sexuality workshop or polarity program…
attends a sacred-slut-primal-priestess-goddess-collective-conscious-kink-BDSM retreat…
And all of a sudden, dat ho wants to open thangs UP.
But it’s not an immediate spread eagle situation.
She innocently suggests going to a play party or inviting a third wheel for some s-exploration.
Understandably, he is excited and/or scared, so he hesitantly agrees to partake – or worse – he tells her to go ahead without him.
This is the beginning of the end. From there, it tip-toes downward...
Now, she sees this as a fundamental aspect of her identity that she cannot give up, and she weaponizes it to justify – to FORCE – an open relationship, because she’s been deceived into thinking she MUST.
Man is presented with impossible ultimatum…
Either he agrees to the new arrangement of dudes dickin down wifey, or she leaves the relationship.
I’ve seen it with many men now, and it’s absolutely GUT-wrenching to witness – like truly heart-breaking.
Men, don’t allow this. And if that door has already been opened, CLOSE it. It will be HARD, but it’s a righteous masculine mission to save your marriage – or get your MOJO back tryin.
Instead of:
If you don’t agree to let me be open, I’ll leave the relationship.
It’s:
You only open your legs for me, or we’re not in a relationship.
Former = beta bullshit behavior
Latter = Daddy Dom Alpha
(Clarification: I’m not talking about a monogamous couple with a solid foundation mutually deciding to explore together. Not risk-free by any means, but a completely different dynamic.)
*And if you’re happily open-polyin-it-up, I’m sincerely happy for you, and you can blissfully dismiss this message that’s not intended for you.
This one is for the TRAD-DADS ;)
This is a conversation men aren’t having, and it’s costing them their marriage.
Share this. Start the dialogue.
Then come do the work with us in person:
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Alpha Out,
Daddy Bowditch
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